Friendship Sabotage

Why is it that, as we begin new relationships/friendships, we often do more or go out of our way more for people we barely know than we often do for people who are supposed to be a significant part of our lives? I challenge you to reflect on that thought and apply it to all the relationships in your life, and be honest with your contribution in complacency and commit to getting back to the “bringing flowers” mindset (metaphorically speaking, of course). Because relationships are a two-way street.
Also, reflect on how you respond when people go out of their way for you and do thoughtful things, big and small. Are you grateful? Do you openly express gratitude, show appreciation, and inspire that person to want to do more? Expressing appreciation and gratitude through actions and words is the primary way to keep from falling into the complacency trap.

It's Monday, it's cold, make your friend or significant other smile and send them some sweet words or buy them some pretty flowers or do something small that you know they will love and be thankful for. These little gestures build long lasting friendships and long lasting relationships. If you become complacent your friend or partner will feel less valued and wonder where the person went who tried so hard to prove their worth in the first place! Its like false advertising but friendship doesn't come with a receipt and a 2 year guarantee!

Just something to think about xx